About me…

Hi there, I am Elaira

I’m a paradigm shifter and seer. I was born with extrasensory abilities. I am multidimensional. I know things I have no reason to know. I perceive what others can’t. And this is completely natural for who I am.
For most of my life, I was told this was wrong & that I am some sort of broken edition.

I grew up in a tiny village on the edge of Lithuania. Everything around me (the traditions, the norms, the smallness) said: shrink, don’t be so happy, “be normal”, and stop being so much because is very uncomfortable. I couldn’t be born in more extremely opposite environment from who I was and what I needed. There were no opportunities, no wealth. Everything around was limited, depressive, low frequency, and oppressive. Nothing was set up for me to succeed. But inside, I felt bigger than life. Where I am now is the pure result of my own becoming.

And the path was nothing but continues challenge to break through.

I was bullied in school because I had too many talents. My light was too bright. Later, at work, I was too much because my outstanding results made people uncomfortable. I exceeded what was expected, and instead of people rising to meet me, they told me to make myself smaller. Your ambition is threatening. Your sensitivity is weakness. And you cannot be both. Because I don’t know how to understand you, which box to put you in.

And there were systematic various authority overpowering, constantly teaching my nervous system that becoming authority myself carries a risk, my personal power or the way I am is not ok.

So I spent decades trying to not be me. Trying to fit into a world that was never built for people like us. But I constantly felt short. I could never get it right, find that perfect balance. I always was or too much or not enough, or too big or too small for others. And I was constantly sick, burned out and somehow just couldn’t crack the code “how to be functional, normal society member, how to thrive in this world.”

Dissociation was my go to strategy and I think only thing what helped me to survive, be here, be in the body and didn’t ask me to change was nature, animals and my sweet little brother…

But here’s what I didn’t understand yet…

My body wasn’t the problem. My highly sensitive, sophisticated nervous system wasn’t fragile. It actually was ahead of its time.

I have the ability to sense other people’s energy through my own body. I can feel what’s underneath the surface, what’s unexpressed, what’s stuck. For most of my life, I was told this made me weird. Oversensitive. Too fragile.

So I ignored it. I overrode my body. I pushed through every signal it gave me. I hated my sensitivity. I treated myself like a machine: work, produce, perform. The industrial revolution mindset: disconnect from your body, your seasons, your capacity, and just push.

And it destroyed me. I burned out. I got sick. Until my body finally said: No more.

That’s when I realized: sensitive people’s problem isn’t their sensitivity. It’s that they collect everything: other people’s energy, the world’s pain, the pressure to perform, the unworthiness, other people feelings, thoughts, and they store it in their bodies. They become stuffed containers with nowhere for the energy to move. Because your emotions, your expression is not ok.

I realized most of people are just massively numbed out and desensitized.

But it was not sustainable this way and I had no choice but to start listening, to live more in line with nature, with seasons. With my body’s actual capacity instead of what I thought I should be able to handle. I stopped treating myself like a machine and started honoring that my sensitivity is actually a highly sophisticated antenna, one that most people haven’t evolved into yet.

That’s where capacity-based growth was born.
Not from theory. From my own body teaching me what it actually needs to thrive and live the bigger, more fulfilling live.

And then my brother died…

Mo soulmate, my everything…

He was 28. A sensitive, beautiful, loving soul who also never felt like he fit in this world.
His death shattered me. But it also woke me up. My performing identity and all what was fault with it had to die with it too.

I realized that it wasn’t just me. There are so many of us: sensitive, bright, deeply feeling, pure, loving souls who care about different world & humanity, who came with keys to change it but who are told even more aggressively than anybody else: “we’re too much, too soft, unworthy & not strong enough for this world”.

And I decided: It’s not ok. And it’s not just about me now. We’re going to change this.

That was the tipping point. That’s when my work became nonnegotiable. That’s when I opened my own business and went full in very devotedly.

At the core, my deepest heart care is to save & protect the purity and the innocence of this world: inside and outside of us.

My mission is to make this world a more welcoming place for sensitive, gentle yet ambitious & pioneering souls. I want them to not only belong here but thrive, create & powerfully lead their movement!

What I Know Now

From an early age, I was drawn to personal power, human potential, self-tenderness, and the quiet work of embodiment. I’ve always been exploring how to support the body to feel safe enough to ground the fullness of this human experience. Maybe that’s why I was born into such limited circumstances and why life gave me the initiations it did – to explore the theme of personal power in all its forms.

I realized deeply that my sensitivity isn’t a flaw, it’s my super power, my compass of safety and lighthouse of my path. My unconventionality isn’t a problem, it’s where my pioneering leadership stems from. My bigness, my sharpness isn’t too much, it’s exactly what’s needed. And my open, deeply caring, gentle heart? That’s not a liability or weakness. That’s my greatest power & my driving force.

I learnt not only to love myself, my body, my extrasensory nature but deeply respect that.

I realized: Everything that has the power to close my heart or make me abandon myself, has too much power.

The real belonging? It started when I belonged to myself first. When I stopped accommodating the world and started letting people rise toward me. And I started walking this path with all of me. The bold and the sensitive. The ambitious and the vulnerable. All of it has space here.

I stopped asking: “How do I belong here?” And started asking: “Do I abandon myself, or do I stay in my power, in my truth, in no self harm?” That was the pivot.

The Real Work

Now I build everything in nonconventional, nontraditional ways: my business, my relationships, my life. Because conventional was never built for me. And I don’t think it was built for you either.

After 20 years of learning how sensitive, ambitious leaders fragment themselves trying to fit in, how people leak their power, sabotage their gifts, why visibility feels difficult, and why they mistake growth for danger. I see the pattern everywhere.

I’m not here to teach tactics. I’m here to activate embodiment. I work with how you are, not what you do. Because the world needs what you came here to offer. And in my experience, the only thing standing between you and offering it fully is learning that your power, your softness, your voice – all of it – is SAFE.

Stay Big. Stay Soft. Stay You.

That’s my anchor and invitation to stop fragmenting yourself.

Invitation to reclaim every part of you: your power, your vulnerability, your vision, your heart, your magic.
Embody wholistic integrated self leadership and build from wholeness.

That’s what is my life story about. That’s what I live. And that’s what I’m here to activate in you.

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My Human Design

I am 6/2 Manifesting Generator.

My life path according Human Design is healer with love! (Left angle cross of healing).

My life path & purpose according Human Design

“Your purpose in life is to bring healing to the world. Whether you are conscious of this effect, you bring a healing energy to others everywhere you go through your deep love and compassion. Sometimes simply walking through a room can trigger healing in those people around you. In this regard, you must take responsibility for your own well-being; otherwise, you will become overloaded by other people’s dis-ease, becoming depleted and even unwell yourself.

Your role as a healer is to bring a loving and calming presence to the world. Whether or not you are aware of it, you carry the potential to bring healing to situations that contemporary curative methods cannot reach. Life has so many dimensions to it, and illnesses can attach themselves to us in numerous ways. It is possible you do not recognize what it is that happens through you, but often you will be aware of the changes that have transpired after your involvement.

With your Conscious Sun in Gate 46, you have an extraordinary way of touching life and other people. You have a deep love for life and a profound connection to it through the physical body. People are drawn to you without really knowing why, and it is up to you to know whether or not to engage with them. There is no need to be ashamed of or overly guarded about your innocent qualities, for they allow others to be more open and relaxed around you. The power of love sparks the healing that courses through you, and it is the highest love, beyond the realms of human understanding, that heals everything.”

Read from The Book of Destinies by Chetan Parkyn